We got to see, in action, how French parents raise their children. We were speaking with Isabelle when 6 1/2 year old Emily interrupted. Rather than succumb to her daughter's interruption, we watched an interesting exchange:
Isabelle: "What was I doing
when you interrupted?"
Emily: "Talking to Tom and
Maxine"
Isabelle: "Donc"
(means 'therefore')
Emily: "I should wait until
you're finished.
Refreshing...
At the end of the day, there's a big difference between
what is touristically cute and what everyone wants. What I mean by that is that we, as tourists,
like charming buildings, small streets, stone buildings, all of the
"quaint Europe stuff". But,
people are people. And in reality, what
they do is buy suburban houses with yards, drywall walls, and maybe a touch or
two of difference.
LESSONS LEARNED
Staying in rural France was a reality check. We've been fascinated for years with the
possibility of living a Peter Mayle lifestyle, among the vineyards, with French
farmers as neighbors and, for that matter, not many neighbors at all. That's what we had in Broze. And while it was a great experience, at this
stage in life, it's not our life.
Being gone an entire month disrupts your home life in
ways that taking a two week vacation does not.
It literally takes a month to get home life back in order. That's everything from dealing with emails
that you dodged (despite reading them) while away, to going through mail, to
restocking the refrigerator. It's worth
it, but there are implications.
Spend the money or miles to upgrade to business class for
the flight over. While it's not great,
it is OK to be frugal on the way back.
France is about small vignettes. A place captured not with videos, but with
well composed pictures. Take lots of
pictures.
Not all chocolate croissants are worth it.
There's always one more cute village or other sight to
check out. At some point, the tour guides
get it right. A 3 star sight is almost
always better than a 1 star one. And, if
you skip some of the cute villages, there's more time to adapt to the life
you're emulating.
I'm running out of things to buy. I came home with a great pocket knife. And, I've been carrying it in my pocket. But, I live a pretty urban life and I'm much
more afraid of losing it than I am finding opportunities to use it.
Try to speak to people.
It works. The distillery, for
example. And plenty of other places
where people who spoke no English were patient and we really could communicate.
We really don't need *that* much space. 700 square feet, well laid out, is sufficient
for months. We liked having 2 “desk”
areas, outdoor living space for good weather, a dishwasher, and a washing
machine.
While we did a better job of packing for France than our
London trip, we still had more clothes than we really needed since we could
wash clothes as necessary.
2005 is a great year for Bordeaux. Also 2009.
Avoid years ending in 7.
TOM'S TOP NINE
1. The LL about rural France lifestyle.2. The jet lagged shock of seeing Bill at Blagnac airport the morning we arrived.
3. Bordeaux wines -- there is a difference.
4. Albi -- a great city for tourists.
5. Having the vendage literally going on around us.
6. Tatou (the vineyard dog) following us as we walked through the vines various times.
7. Le Romuald for lunch on a rainy day, especially getting their last table.
8. Breakfasts in Bordeaux with the Graysons
9. Le Gourmet Quercynois for foie gras.
MAXINE’S ADDITIONS
1.
Walking in the area around our house – vineyards, interesting stone houses,
small country lanes, wineries. Just
beautiful!2. Fabulous lunch at Esprit du Vin in Albi.
3. Relaxing with a glass of rose on our patio overlooking the vines.
4. Pech Merle cave with 25,000 year old cave paintings.
5. Dinner at Le Jardin des Quatre Saisons in Albi. It was great to be able to communicate completely in French and the food was good too!